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When God is Silent: Ezekiel 20:1-49

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Silence between people who are in a covenant relationship is neither confusing nor mysterious; We know exactly what it means…it is a certain sign that something is wrong. When Mali is silent with me, I can be sure she believes I’ve done something wrong. I know this because that’s when I get silent with her; when I believe she’s done something to offend me.

And, silence is not an inappropriate response; it is communicating displeasure.

It gets complicated in two ways. First, When I ask what’s wrong, and all I get is silence, its difficult to understand what went wrong. Second, when I insist on justifying my actions the silence is extended. The offended party isn’t inclined to speak as long as the partner insists nothing’s wrong.

We are in a covenant relationship with God and…sometimes things go silent. We feel like God is a thousand miles away and we can’t hear Him. We can ignore the silence and the relationship deteriorates or, we can ask the honest question..”what have I done?”

Very simple but, not very easy…

Explanation: Ezekiel 20 opens with God’s declaration, “Son of man, speak to the elders of Israel and tell them that this is what the Lord GOD says: Have you come to inquire of Me? As surely as I live, I will not be consulted by you, declares the Lord GOD.” God is saying “from the beginning of our relationship I’ve made my expectations clear and you ignore me…so I’ll quit talking.”

Ezekiel 20 is not just a history lesson; it is a covenant warning. This is how the problem unfolds:

Israel is in exile and they want to know why, so the elders ask Ezekiel to inquire of God. In other words, they know (intuitively) that they must have done something wrong.
God says to Ezekiel, “tell them I’m not speaking with them right now.” Which, confirms their fear that something in the relationship has gone wrong.
But then God tells Ezekiel to explain why; God details Israel’s long history of rebellion against God and God’s repeated mercy for the sake of His name. The chapter recounts Israel’s disobedience in Egypt, the wilderness, and the Promised Land, showing both God’s justice and His patience.

Idolatry and Sabbath violation are presented as the two primary, repeated sins that define Israel’s rebellion and form the main basis for God’s judgment.

Idolatry is the root problem. God commands them: “Cast away the detestable things your eyes feast on, and do not defile yourselves with the idols of Egypt” Idolatry is linked with child sacrifice and other “abominations” as a core evil. Profaning the Sabbath is the covenant marker of rebellion. God repeatedly says they “profaned my Sabbaths” in Egypt, the wilderness, and the Promised Land. The Sabbath is given as a sign that God sanctifies them: “Keep my Sabbaths holy, that they may be a sign between me and you” (v. 12, 20). God gave the Sabbath for very particular reasons:

1. To commemorate God as Creator - The Sabbath is a reminder that God created the universe in six days and rested on the seventh, so He “blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy” (Exodus 20:8–11). It’s a weekly declaration that God is Creator and has the right to dictate how we live. The Sabbath is tied to the creation pattern: God rested, and we rest to follow His example

2. To remind Israel that God is Redeemer and Provider - The Sabbath also recalls Israel’s deliverance from slavery in Egypt, reminding them that God saved them “with a mighty hand and an outstretched arm” (Deuteronomy 5:12–15). It’s a day to remember they were slaves, then saved: “You shall remember that you were a slave in the land of Egypt, and the Lord your God brought you out”

3. To be a covenant sign between God and Israel - The Sabbath is the “sign” of the covenant between God and Israel: “It is a sign between me and the children of Israel forever” (Exodus 31:13). It visibly demonstrates that Israel belongs to God and that He is their Lord and sanctifier

4. To provide regular rest and refreshment - The Sabbath is a gift to the weary: a day to stop anxious toil, rest, and enjoy God’s gifts. It’s about being rather than doing: one day to rest, worship, and enjoy God instead of constantly working. It’s a counter-cultural declaration of trust: ancient societies didn’t take a day off, but Israel did to show they trust God to provide

5. To point to ultimate rest in salvation - The Sabbath signifies rest in salvation that is ultimately found in Christ (Hebrews 4:1–11). It’s a marker of the deeper rest from sin that God offers

So, God says He will not let them inquire of Him while they persist in this defilement. In spite of this, there are things God proclaimed He would not to…to protect His own reputation. God says He would not destroy Israel completely even though they deserved it, to protect His own reputation among the nations. He did this not because they were righteous, but for the sake of His name—so the nations would not say He was:

Unable to fulfill His promises
Unjust or hateful
Profaned or dishonored by His failure to protect His people

But, God doesn’t leave us desolate; He finally says He will bring them into the “wilderness of the nations” and judge them face to face as He judged their ancestors; He will purge those who rebel and revolt, and they will not enter Israel. Ultimately, after judgment, they will remember their evil, loathe themselves, and finally listen to God so His name is no longer profaned. God will finally speak.

Application: Do we want to break the silence? God has made some things pretty clear, if we’ll listen.

1. Live for God’s name, not our own - The central thrust of Ezekiel 20 is that God acts for the sake of His name. Our life’s purpose is to glorify God’s name, not promote your own. Everything we do—work, marriage, parenting, friendships—should be done “for the glory of God” (1 Cor 10:31). We should ask “How do I love my wife for the glory of God’s name? How do I do my job for His glory?” We should pray “God, use my life to glorify Your name among the nations”

2. Kill hidden idolatry in our heart - Identify and cast away modern idols: money, status, power, approval, comfort, ideology, relationships, self. Don’t let our heart “go after idols” the way Israel did. Confess and repent of any idolatrous attachment that competes with worship of God

3. Honor the Sabbath as a sign of trust and covenant - Though Christians are not under the Old Covenant Sabbath law in the same way, the principle remains:

Rest regularly as a sign that God is our Provider and Sanctifier, not your own labor
Use time of rest and worship as a weekly declaration that God is Lord and you trust Him
Don’t treat God’s gifts (like rest and worship) as burdens to discard; they are means of communion with Him

4. Learn from Israel’s story, don’t repeat it - God rehearsed Israel’s rebellion so His people would learn and turn from sin: Don’t assume we’re immune to the same patterns: rebellion, idolatry, hypocrisy, spiritual apathy. Recognize that sin has consequences, but God’s mercy is also real and purposeful.

5. Rest in God’s grace for His name’s sake - Just as God spared Israel for the sake of His name, He saves and keeps us for the sake of Christ’s name. Our salvation is not because of our righteousness, but because God is faithful to His name. This should produce humility, not pride. It should also produce gratitude and zeal: if God saved us for His glory, live for His glory.

6. The church must be a beacon of holiness among the nations - The church should visibly reflect God’s character: mercy, justice, purity, faithfulness. The church should not conform to the world’s values but stand out as holy. The church should preach repentance, warn against sin, and call people to live for God’s name.

Be certain of this; God will listen and God will speak but, on His terms, not ours. If we think God is kidding around…we will be in for a huge disappointment.

Prayer: “Father God,

I come before You with a humble heart, grateful for Your mercy, Your patience, and Your faithfulness. I confess that I need Your grace every day, and I ask You to shape my heart so that I will honor You in all that I do.

Please forgive me for the times I have drifted from Your ways, chosen my own will, or given my heart to lesser things. Clear away anything in me that competes with You. Help me to love what You love, to hate what is evil, and to walk in obedience with sincerity and joy.

Lord, I commit my life to You again. Teach me to live with integrity in private and in public, to honor You in my thoughts, my words, my relationships, my work, and my decisions. Give me the strength to trust You, the discipline to obey You, and the courage to follow You even when it is costly.

Make my life a reflection of Your holiness and goodness. Let my choices bring glory to Your name, and let my heart find rest in belonging to You. Keep me sensitive to Your voice, quick to repent, and eager to do what is pleasing in Your sight.

Thank You that You do not abandon Your people, but guide, correct, and restore them in love. I place myself in Your hands today and ask that You make me faithful to Your expectations, by Your Spirit and for Your glory.

In Jesus’ name, amen.”

Live boldly out there today…

Resources:
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ezekiel+20&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ezekiel+20&version=KJV

https://www.bible.com/bible/114/EZK.20.NKJV

https://www.esv.org/Ezekiel+20/

https://bibleproject.com/bible/nlt/ezekiel/20/

https://www.melissabeaty.com/studies/bible-study-ezekiel-201-49

https://www.shmoop.com/study-guides/book-of-ezekiel/chapter-20-summary.html

https://www.apostolicfaith.org/daybreak-and-discovery/ezekiel-20-1-29

https://enduringword.com/bible-commentary/ezekiel-20/

https://biblehub.com/ezekiel/20.htm