“Then his wife said to him, “Do you still hold fast your integrity? Curse God and die.” But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women would speak. Shall we receive good from God, but not trouble?” In all this Job did not sin with his lips.” Job 2:9, 10
The Westminster Catechism states “The chief end of man is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.”How do I satisfy my purpose in life by cursing it? We know the answer.
Well, Satan failed to dent Job’s righteousness so he challenged God...”he’s like any man. He doesn’t care about stuff. If you attack him personally he will curse you.” So, God said to Satan, “Very well, then you may attack him physically; but you must spare his life.” So Satan afflicted Job with painful sores from the soles of his feet to the crown of his head. His pain was so severe that Job took a piece of broken pottery and scraped himself.
His wife said to him, “why do you still trust God? Curse God and die!”
But, wait a minute. What’s she still doing here? I thought Job lost everything. Chrysostom (Archbishop of Constantinople 347-407), asked the same question; Because, he thought, he could use her as a tool to defeat Job. Whatever the intent, that was the outcome. She encouraged Job to do exactly what Satan wanted him to do. I don’t know Job’s wife. I’m sure she was a fine woman but...everybody has there limit. She was certainly grieving the loss of her children and her possessions. Now she had to deal with the physical agony her husband was enduring. She was probably mortified, wondering what more could possibly go wrong. She knew her husband was a righteous man and didn’t deserve any of this. All she could think of was a way out for her husband...and herself. So, with best intentions...
Curse God and die...suicide by sin
We understand the temptation. We have all walked with friends through their valley of the shadow of death. We want to do something...anything! It won’t be the last time we hear this same advise offered to Job, however well intentioned. But, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Unfortunately, it isn’t well thought out because it puts the proverbial cart before the horse. After all, the first (and foremost) gift we receive is life. Everything we receive after that is tertiary in that it is contingent on the presence of life itself. Pleasant, happy, abundant, wealthy, easy, satisfying...you name it...are all adjectives attached to life. As are miserable, worthless, meaningless or empty. Adjectives are subordinate to the subject since their existence depend on the subject. No subject...no adjective!..
And, the one thing we know about life is...it’s God-given.
Or...do we? If we did, we would understand life is the only thing we have that is sacred and has meaning. Everything that attaches to it? Not so much. So the suggestion that Job end his life in order to be liberated from the profanities attached to it is, at best, upside down. At worst, it’s evil. It suggests the divine is subordinate to the profane. And that, my friends, is sin.
My preferred tool in clinical counseling is the simple question...”what does this mean”. After listening to a client’s travails I try not begin with a list of corrective actions even though some may be painfully self-evident. I ask them to examine what their trouble means. And that meaning inevitably derives from our understanding of who God is (or, isn’t) in our lives. As believers this shouldn’t only lead to the answer “God did it” but to another question; what is God doing? Job’s interpretation was steadfast and clear; “The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away. May the name of the Lord be praised.”
(Mic drop)
Martin Luther said, in his catechism, “this means I believe God created me...gave me my body and soul, eyes, ears and all my members, my mind and all my abilities...that God preserves me by richly and daily providing all I own, and all I need to keep my body and life. God also preserves me by defending me against all danger, guarding and protecting me from all evil. All this God does only because he is my good and merciful Father in heaven, and not because I have earned or deserved it. For all this I ought to thank and praise, to serve and obey him.” This is where Job’s wife’s use of the word integrity rings loudly: can I, as person of integrity, accept the things I perceive as blessings and refuse those I perceive as trouble?
Job couldn’t...nor can we.
What is our intention in helping others? Is it to fix the situation or to understand it? We may not help make their life painless but we will help make it meaningful.
Live boldly out there today...