"On the seventh day, when King Ahasuerus was merry with wine, he ordered the seven eunuchs in attendance to bring Queen Vashti before him wearing her royal crown, to display her beauty to the people and the officials; for she was a beautiful woman".
Esther 1:10-11
During his third year on the throne, King Ahasuerus decided to host a party in the city of Susa. The celebration lasted for half a year and concluded with a week-long drinking festival, during which both the king and his guests consumed vast quantities of alcohol. In his drunken stupor, King Ahasuerus decided that he wanted to show off his wife's beauty, so he commanded Queen Vashti to appear before his male guests. The text doesn’t say exactly how she was told to appear, only that she was to wear her royal crown. But...given the king's drunkenness and the fact that all his male guests were likewise intoxicated, tradition inform us Vashti was likely commanded to show herself naked – wearing only her crown.
Vashti received the summons and refused to comply. Her decision had dire implications. We should recall these events occurred at a time in history when most women were owned by their father or husband. They had no unalienable rights apart from them. Humiliation was surely a daily occurrence and would not be considered sufficient to risk her very life. The name Vashti originates from the Persian word “vaištī”, meaning - "best, excellent." At least in this instance she was strong...self-aware. She acquitted herself well.
So...who was Vashti...that she was willing to make such a momentous decision?
Vashti was great-granddaughter of King Nebuchadnezzar II and daughter of King Belshazzar. When the Medea-Persian empire invaded, Vashti was kidnapped and given, by King Darius, to his son Ahasuerus to marry. So...she was a daughter of privilege...likely accustomed to a level of deference from those surrounding her. A deference derived not on her own but...on account of her lineage.
Of course, the king was angry with her decision and asked his advisers how Vashti should be punished for her disobedience. His adviser Memucan told him that Vashti has wronged not only the king, but also all of the husbands of Persia, whose wives may be encouraged by Vashti's actions to disobey. Memucan encouraged Ahasuerus to dismiss Vashti and find another queen. Ahasuerus took Memucan's advice. He could have executed her but showed mercy and banished her.
Life’s choices are not about us...assuaging our personal preferences or securing our “safe spot”. Like Vashti, we are “Children of the King”. We ought to have a sense of ourselves and who we represent. It should mean something. We should be able to recognize there are some things people like us cannot countenance. They reflect poorly on the family we represent and the King who has purchased us with His blood.
But...it could cost us everything. Vashti was willing to take that risk and her benefactors are long dead and gone...as is she. We serve the eternal God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. Maybe it’s time we step up our game...
Live boldly out there today...