I’ll
tell you what I would do. Even though I’m not there in person, consider me
right there with you, because I can fully see what’s going on. I’m telling you
that this is wrong. You must not simply look the other way and hope it goes
away on its own. Bring it out in the open and deal with it in the authority of
Jesus our Master. Assemble the community—I’ll be present in spirit with you and
our Master Jesus will be present in power. Hold this man’s conduct up to public
scrutiny. Let him defend it if he can! But if he can’t, then out with him! It
will be totally devastating to him, of course, and embarrassing to you. But
better devastation and embarrassment than damnation. You want him on his feet
and forgiven before the Master on the Day of Judgment. – The Message -
Of course, wouldn’t it be nice if the biggest problems we had
were disagreements? Unfortunately, we encounter problems that nobody wants to
touch…with a ten foot pole.
What should we do?
1.
Don’t look the other way! “Bad news doesn’t get better with age”.2. Bring it out in the open and deal with it…in the authority of Christ.
3. Give the principle parties an opportunity to speak.
4. If their defense is insufficient (don’t forget “pistos”) remove them from the church.
5. Trust your faithful leadership will result in true repentance.
Paul gives us a couple of important reminders. We bring
these concerns to our common Father and we evaluate the situation using
leadership principles (reliability and
accurate [Biblical] knowledge). Sometimes the issues get so contentious and
emotional that we want to depend on “how
we feel” or “what’s least
embarrassing” or “what seems less
judgmental”. We can’t let that happen. Our sole source and authority is God’s
Word.
He cautions, in verse 10, I didn’t mean that you should have nothing at
all to do with outsiders of that sort…you’d have to leave the world entirely to
do that! But I am saying that
you shouldn’t act as if everything is just fine when a friend who claims to be
a Christian is promiscuous or crooked”. That’s all the excuse we
need to do nothing. Most people hate conflict. It’s human nature. Devout
believers will say “it’s no big deal”.
Paul says this is so unbelievably arrogant that he’s embarrassed with them, more
than the guilty party. I understand we all just want to get along but…not at
the expense of truth.