April 11, 2015

Genesis 38:26, Judah and Tamar

“Judah recognized them and said, “She is more righteous than I, since I wouldn’t give her to my son Selah.”

Let’s not get distracted by the sordid details…Judah consorting with a woman he believes is a prostitute, and finding out she is his own daughter-in-law.

Hard to put a good spin on this one…

Judah was obviously a “Big Shot“. He moved about in his community and got what he wanted. He also did what he wanted. Big shots get to do this. Judah also suffered loss. Two of his sons died and his wife died. Big shots often endure the same pain as the rest of us. But, Big Shots get to take matters into their own hands…

Judah promised Tamar his youngest son…but never followed through. Whatever the reason, nobody held him accountable.

Judah told Tamar to move back home with her dad and she did…with no record of how her dad felt about it. Big Shots wield that kind of authority.

Judah no longer had a wife so he sought another outlet for his cravings. Somebody must have rationalized it away. Nobody told him he couldn’t, or shouldn’t.

In the end, an entire family…probably the entire community…was disrupted. Babies were born and Judah had to endure a healthy dose of humility. To his credit, he handled it well once he recognized his failures.

When we are Big Shots only God is left to keep us in line. That can be embarrassing. Perhaps we should be thankful for our own little corner of existence…where our friends and families are perfectly content to keep us in line.

Live boldly out there today…

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